Wedding Extras or Must Haves?
Every wedding is unique and so are the couples tying the knot. But, when you take a closer look, there are a number of common offerings we see at weddings no matter the style or setting. As we plan and attend these amazing events, you better believe Sarah and I are always looking at the details, taking note of what works, what doesn’t, and how we can make things even better! So we’re breaking down our top picks for what can be an extra and what's a must have at any wedding!
Restroom Amenity Baskets: Must Have
We see these at almost every wedding and I’ll be honest, when there isn’t one I'm kind of disappointed. Typically found in both the women’s and men’s restrooms, these larger guest “emergency kits” contain a plethora of miscellaneous items including deodorant, hair spray, band aids, tissues, Tide pens, a small sewing kit, Tylenol, mints, nail files, and the list can go on and on.
I’d be lying if I said I never dug into one of these before. In fact, I was so excited to find oil blotting sheets at a recent wedding I attended! When it's warm and you're tearing up the dance floor, the last thing you want is to be a shiny, oily mess! Even if you don’t use any of the items, it’s nice to see the happily married couple thinking of their guests. These are a definite must have on our list.
Dancing Shoes: A Thoughtful Gesture, But Your Call
$1 Old Navy flip flop sale anyone? Having extra footwear for your friends and family is totally up to you! Folding flats and flip flops seem to be the most common offerings displayed near the dance floor, but I’ve also seen grippy socks for younger guests (from a safety perspective this is a big no-no). So the verdict? While having dancing shoes available is nice for your guests (and their feet), it’s not an absolute necessity.
Hotel Welcome Bags: Our Obsession
Photo | Marigold & Grey
I believe in these 100%! For guests who are making the trip (out of town or local) to see you tie the knot, a welcome bag makes all the difference in the world. Not only is it a thoughtful surprise for guests when they first check-in at the hotel, but a bottle of water (or two), some snacks, and a sincere note with an itinerary really shows your guests that you care. Besides the goodies, I always enjoy reading the special message from the bride and groom and am grateful for any updates regarding the wedding – locations with addresses and times (because let’s be honest, sometimes guests forget their invitation at home), if there is a shuttle service, and after party information. It’s also a personal touch to see recommendations of where to eat and what to do in the local vicinity.
Signature Cocktails: Could Go Either Way
Yes, no, maybe so? While I love the idea of special touches and having something fun for your guests to sip on, please don’t force a specific drink on anyone. The signature cocktail should not be the only beverage offered when your guests first arrive. Including a signature cocktail in addition to offering a full bar is the way to go.If you want to put your signature drink front and center, think about setting up a special table or having servers pass the delicious concoction during cocktail hour. Don’t forget to put a note on the bar reminding guests what’s in the special beverage!
Favors: If The Budget Allows
Gone are the days of handing out little trinkets that end up in your junk drawer. Think about opting for a food or beverage item if you definitely want your guests to leave with something in hand. Another popular favor is to make a donation to a charity on behalf of your guests. If you decide to donate, conveying the message to your guests is important. Consider putting a card at each place setting letting guests know what charity you chose and why.
Xo,
Michelle